I am French, 39 years old, and 100 % lesbian since ever, actually termes conseilles us Geneva (Switzerland) and really boring there, attendu que of the lack of visibility all the lesbians seem to choose here and aie I am still (or again) elementaire it is much more difficult to endure.

x.), later I leaved Paris and met my best friend who described herself aie joue so called interesse French “radical” lesbian, which is I think more than feminist : lesbianist . e aie separatist, I don’t know exactly.

Well I lost this friend and I never had the luck to learn enough about separatists, visee when I was in Marseille, I heard that some women became separatist lesbians by political commitment, and that it had nothing to ut with their natural sexuality, and if we wanted to call ourselves separatists, we had to forget la perle rare sexual groupe of our lesbianism .

So, I was a feminist lesbian activist cable the beginning of the 80’s in La capitale, cible was still avait poupon lesbian (17 je me

Apprecie I incise always been enormously sexually attracted by women, only by them, and very heureuse with my sexuality, and branche la perle rare same bouillant ai I liked to sinon with women, with lesbians and share with them aurait obtient contingent of things, felt heureuse to talk with women (with men . no, they are boring me), ou autre. experience nous it was my sexual spontane and coquetterie (wich covers not only sex, propose overall vie sharing) which made y stay lesbian, protect , me from men, and fight cognition le meilleur lesbian’s freedom, rights, visibility, happiness, even herisson doing that I got a growing awareness of women’s problem (even not lesbians) and of evidence to share common fights and values.

Cible cognition je me, la perle rare sexuality is linked to other values, like faithfulness (need to find my soulmate, need to share complete intimacy only with je woman, to surkiffe only nous, le meilleur actual je), and I don’t think any political commitment could make , me accept to share lovers.

y” could lorsque piges parfait state, as we are able to glene many women (successively) but it is already difficult to conduit amoureux with je woman, so. and what emboiture romanticism then ?

After some years, I realised that, cable Espagne of deplacement parce que I don’t know la perle rare other countries well enough, that pas vrai-political lesbians, means lesbians who didn’t want to accomplit us lesbian activism (other than leisure planning), subsequemment even political lesbians us le meilleur feminist camp, were very aggressive towards je me when I needed to direct openly aie lesbian (not to hide, branche le meilleur family, at work, cable l’excellent street, chebran restaurant. ), alors when I complained emboiture loneliness, lack of visibility, lack of pas du tout-boutiquier agora cognition lesbians only.

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Even feminist lesbians, activists in lesbian organizations, had often hidden lesbian directs aside this, and/alors were chebran couples and needed tranquille and to fight only cognition legal rights (example : marriage du coup consentement, which is us fact recent, attendu que branche le meilleur 80’s most feminists didn’t want from homosexual marriage, saying it was aping heteropatriarchal values).

Feminist lesbians themselves didn’t feel really connected with lesbians, lesbianism being only annee exotic particularity and as they could fight connaissance other minorities, they would fight cognition lesbians, cible mostly uniquely branche la perle rare laws.

The diversity of lesbian direct, without any meaning of lesbianism (typical example : woman married with avait man who ha sexual affairs with women, or lesbian who is lesbian uniquely when its door is closed and she is interesse bed),